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Dec. 4th, 2005

fall2005

keepin' it short

It took an hour for the shuttle service to bring me home from the train station, isn't it ridiculous? Finally, I am home, very thankful! New York City was windy and cold, but I had a good time nonetheless. Obviously, besides slaving for work, I had a good dose of tiramisu, some phở, wonton soup and noodles, and a damn good bowl of butternut squash soup (still craving for more!).

This tidbit is interesting, while spending my time in NYC, Luther was with me everywhere. Apparently, the hotel lobby loves his music and they blasted his voice all over the place. At a restaurant, they had Luther on intermittently along with the holiday jolly tunes. I loved it; I love Luther. Could never get enough him. Rest in peace!

It is good to be home; warm and cozy. However, I am alone at home tonight, he is with his class having a field trip to Wall Street tomorrow. Lucky them, they got the opportunity to meet the big shot at Wall Street, and having breakfast too.

Listen to this, I worked the whole weekend and still have to be at work at 7:00 am tomorrow morning. Believe it or not? well, believe it!

While I was away, the white stuff visited the place again; my car is fully covered in snow but I am too tired to shovel and sweep them off. It's okay, I will do a quick job tomorrow morning before going to work.

Dang it, I am hungry.
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Oct. 24th, 2005

winter wonder

Detroit

I am in Detroit at the moment.

Nothing much to say about it, except that the suburban areas on the northwestern part of the city is very pretty. I was driving around from one town to another on a real estate tour of the areas...with houses that looks like villas and castles on the golf courses. If I am not wrong, most of these people work for Ford Motor.

That's it from Detroit. I am going home in 2 days.

Oct. 22nd, 2005

college street

Last night in Chicago

Hi everyone, it's me again.

I couldn't resist coming into the Apple store every single time I walk by its door so here I am, standing at one of the free internet terminals, running my fingers across the titanium-looking keyboard (slicky though!). Tonight is my last night in Chicago on this trip and then I have to pack my suit cases tonight for an early flight to Detroit, MI tomorrow. Yup, it's nothing new...just same old work routine.

After a long day of work (yes, I do work on Saturday), I decided to treat myself to a nice and fancy dinner. I didn't need more than a few seconds of deliberation because I was craving for lobster. I ended up running (because it was raining heavily) to a nearby Chinese restaurant down the road within walking distance from my hotel. The total cost for my dinner, including tip, was $54 bucks. I am glad it didn't come out from my own pocket!

My birthday is coming in about a week. Not sure why, but I usually don't celebrate my birthday in the way others people have -- big party, drinking and getting wasted. My kind of birthday party has always been subtle, sometimes nonexistent and often time it has fallen into oblivion from people's mind. However, I had my first birthday celebration last night when a family of a student took me out to dinner. It turned out, the student's birthday is same as mine -- Halloween. It was nice of them to treat me out to dinner and told me their daughter admires me. Explicit admiration does not come around too often for me in terms of having admirers. More often than not, I am the one who admires other people but not the other way around. Hence, having someone looking up to my life as inspirational is very overwhelming. I just didn't know how to react to open adulation.

But I did get my first birthday present for this year, which is from mom. It is a silver necklace with a heart pendant dotted with tiny pieces of diamonds. Mom bought the necklace on her trip to California in August and couldn't wait to see my face upon giving it to me. Of course, I love it and mom was the one who locked it around my neck. I am now adorned with this beautiful silvery piece of jewelry -- full with love. The last time my mom bought a tangible birthday present was 7 years ago; it was the jade bracelet I am wearing on my left wrist. Other birthday presents were made in monetary forms to my graduate school's living. Those two years living in Boston was financially tough and their support was more than I have ever asked for. My parents are always thoughtful and supportive of my education. I am forever grateful for their sacrifices. That's the reason why I never demand or ask for birthday presents from them.

The Apple store is getting crowded and I suspect that people walking around and peering over my shoulder to see what the hell is this woman is rambling about. With that said, I bid you good bye and will send some update once I get to Detroit tomorrow.

The lobster is working improperly in my stomach. I hope it will go away in a few hours.

See you all in Detroit.

Oct. 14th, 2005

winter wonder

Chicago is full of sun shine

This might sounds embarrassingly awkward, but I think I went to the ER for the treatment of what could have been diagnosed as seasonal depression. Seriously, how can one function properly and sanely when one has not been exposed to the sun for one whole week? As for my case, my mind got shut down from the suffocation of gray overcast and constant drizzles. Don't get me wrong, I love rain, but not when it's constantly pouring down on earth with no periodic glimpses of sun shine. A week of no sun shine put a damage on my body, causing fatigue, chest pain, short breath, and dizziness. I am not a doctor or a scientist, but I know that much about seasonal depression is true.

Anyway, I did get my sun treatment this morning as the plane rose above the thick layer of cloud to a higher altitude. The window seat allowed me to fully enjoy the strong beams of natural light coming directly from the clear blue sky. Chicago has a better weather than western MA; the temperature is up in the low 70s and of course, full of sun shine. I savor every single second of it.

I am so cured!

First day in Chicago...many more to go before I can come home!
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Oct. 10th, 2005

fall2005

a change

Home at last...
...at least for a few days before packing my suitcases once again for another 2 weeks on the lonely roads.

I had originally planned to wait for 21 more days to chop off my hair as a bidding-farewell ritual to another year of age. The plan didn't last long; I lost my keen patience after two long weeks struggling to upkeep the thick layers of my long mane on the road. It was too time consuming when I had little time for maintenance. As of 7 pm of October 10th, I let the hair stylish liberally chopped 3 to 4 inches off. I am so ready for a change. But seriously, I do feel a lot lighter, like dropping 3 to 4 pounds of fat with an instant diet regiment. It's a good change; I need it anyway!

A little more about my travel...

Cincinnati was a beautiful city, at least with its urban landscape including seven hills and a river cutting in between the borderline of Kentucky and Ohio. My hotel located on the Kentucky part of the city and I commuted via the bridge to get to Ohio every day. It does sound quite a distance, but only took 2 or 3 minutes with clear traffic. Not bad at all. Except for the first day of my visit, Cincinnati was covered with a heavy overcast for the rest of the remaining days, in which I have previously written. However, the rain somewhat casted a quaint glow of romantic ambiance over the city, misty enough to show the autumnal beauty. Nonetheless, I couldn't wait to get back to New England for the true autumnal sceneries. It always reminds me of my love for Boston and other memories from my first year living in New England.

My god-sister and her husband took me on a city tour, complete with the adventure to the conservatory of lush tropical green. Then we went through a few neighborhoods, both the inner city for a glimpse of the slum and the houses on the hilly golf courses that classified social statuses of the occupants from those of inner city. It has been three years since the last time we saw each other and I was lucky enough to have my Saturday off, completely free from work and other work-related commitment. Oh yes, good news, she is pregnant and expected to have her first child next June or July. I have to admit that seeing her with a good marriage makes me want to get ready for mine. This might sound crazy but I have been thinking about it quite often, more than I should have, during these past few days.

Maybe I need more than a hair cut; I need a real change.
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Oct. 5th, 2005

fall2005

Linh tinh chuyện

Cũng không có gì mới lạ để viết, cũng không có hình ảnh nào để post lên. Nói chung chung là mệt mỏi quá nên không cảm hứng chụp hình hay đi tham quan. Cả ngày chỉ ngồi sau tay lái vòng vòng từ xa lộ này sang xa lộ khác, đói và mệt nên cảm giác biến mất theo mây hay gió gì đó. Đi công tác gần 2 tuần rồi, chỉ mong về đến nhà mình, ngủ trên giường mình, có mùi hôi hôi của mình, vậy mà nó thoải mái.

Sáng nay đi từ 7:30 sáng đến 2 giờ trưa mới về lại hotel. Chui vào phòng, bỏ giầy bỏ tất ra khỏi chân, bay vèo lên giường đọc miên mang The Da Vinci Code, rồi chực nhớ phải có việc để làm. Thế là bật giậy, leo vào đây xem lại hàng ngàn emails, mostly là emails làm việc nhưng cũng có một hai cái personal emails. Đọc cũng vui, đở nhớ nhà. Bây giờ chắc là chui vào bồn tắm, tắm một buổi, gội cái đầu..rồi chuẩn bị chiều nay đi tiếp đến 10 giờ khuya. Sáng mai cũng phải thức sớm lái xe xuống Cincinnati, final destination cho chuyến công tác này. Cũng hơi looking forward đến Cincinnati vì nhỏ em gái lấy chồng năm ngoái và định cư ở đó vì quê chồng là đó. Cả 3 năm rồi chưa gặp nó, giờ gặp thì nó một tay là chồng...tay kia cầm cái pregnancy test chờ đợi tin vui. Khỉ khô, mình làm chị mà chả có gì mới để khoe với em. Đúng là lúa quá...lúc nào cũng đi sau thời đại.

Tuần trước về Minnesota, ghé thăm nhỏ bạn với 5 đứa con nuôi. Đứa lớn năm nay 11 tuổi mà đả trở thành "thiếu nữ" vì đả có tháng và ngực là số 32A, gần bằng má nuôi của nó luôn. Đúng là con nít thời nay lớn sớm quá, mình nhớ ngày xưa mình đến 14 hay 15 tuổi gì đó mới có dấu hiệu làm thiếu nữ mà đằng trước cũng không nở nang gì cho lắm. Bây giờ đứa con gái nuôi của mình biết dùng son phấn, biết làm điệu, biết hàng "hiệu" là những hàng gì. Còn mình ngày xưa thì khi vào đại học mới biết đánh phấn tha son. Không chịu cho mình lúa cũng không được, đúng là "hậu sanh khả quý". Còn 2 thằng con nuôi út là 2 anh em sinh đôi, nhìn giống nhau y đúc. Mới 5 hay 6 tháng mà tụi nó biết cười, biết làm duyên đủ thứ. Đến chơi mà tụi nó cứ đòi mình ẳm và ru ngủ. Dễ thương ghê! A hèm, thèm!

Thứ 7 tuần trước cũng chạy lên thăm ông anh Ba với bà chị dâu và con nhỏ cháu. Sẳn dịp anh sinh nhật nên cũng karaoke ì xèo, sáng hôm sau đi làm không còn hơi hay tiếng để nói chuyện với tụi học sinh. Khó nhưng vui. Con nhỏ cháu gần 6 tuổi mà cũng cao ngều ngệu, chắc là một năm nữa là nó đứng bằng cô Năm của nó. Nó cao giống ba với chú của nó chứ không giống cô. Không hiểu sau mấy ông anh thằng em ai cũng cao ráo, có một mình mình bị thiếu chiều cao. Nghĩ cũng tủi thân quá, ước gì mình thêm được vài inches thì cũng đâu đến nỗi tệ. Chắc là bị trời ém cho không cao được. Oh well, destiny là vậy, chịu thôi!

Giờ thì đi tắm, gội cái đầu, ép tóc, thay quần thay áo rồi chuẩn bị đi tiếp.
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Oct. 4th, 2005

college street

so hard to think of a title...

The Da Vinci Code is quite a literary concoction that I have consumed most of my free time during these past few days. I dragged it with me everywhere I have been; at Koma the Japanese restaurant, in line waiting to board the plane, sitting in the bathroom, washing my dirty laundry at a local laundry mat in German Village right here in downtown Columbus, slouching in my car at a school parking lot waiting for the next meeting...

you get the idea!

It's an easy read even though the title educes such implication to the mystery of Da Vinci' art works that would perhaps stray people away from reading a dark and complicated piece of novel. Or at least, that's what I had perceived. Shouldn't judge the book by its cover; such an old adage!

On a different note, I am in Columbus (Ohio) at the moment feeling fat and sluggish. I feel the rolls of unwanted weights around my waist and abdomen are like the jiggling gelatin. The Doubletree Hotel gives me a huge suite but it looks eerie and cold. Finally, I have internet connection in the room with the price of 10 bucks per 24 hours. However, I have no motivation to do any work tonight even though I am behind the work in my office. It's freaking hard working from a distance and constantly traveling at the same time.

(See...I told you in previous entries that I would be bitching about work and traveling. Now it happened ! I am so predictable, heh?)

I miss home and miss my bed.

Tomorrow is another day.

Beautiful day.

I love you.




Forgot to put something of importance down in this journal...

Today is my first year anniversary on this job!

...and there is also a countdown for another important personal event coming quite soon.
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Sep. 19th, 2005

fall2005

Millennium hotel in Time Square

Oii, no free internet at the Millennium hotel and their internet provider would not let me connect to their connection so no writing from the 41st floor this past two days.

Today has been very productive. The weather is perfectly great, with a little heat plus the muggy air trapped inside the subway made it unbearable at times, but perfectly for outdoor activities. I spent most of my day in Queens, visiting high school and having a little shopping spree. Then I met Fred Chapeline; Fred complimented my earrings when I was standing at a counter, paying my breakfast bill. Fred is a writer, a philosopher, a novelist, a dreamer, and a 3-times married bachelor at age 80s. Fred is full of life and stories to tell. Fred made my day!

I am at an Internet terminal at the moment and have only 8 minutes left on my time purchase so I better be quick and wrap it up.

I will write more tomorrow or Wednesday.

The Millennium hotel is magnificantly comfortable and poshy. I feel so "elite" :)

Sep. 17th, 2005

fall2005

Hotel room' neighbors

The next door neighbor is having some guests over in their room and they are violating the hotel's rule by smoking in a non-smoking room/floor. Should I call the front desk to complain because the smoke seep through the door crack and pervading the air in my room? They are so raucous.

Talking about hotel neighbors, I do have many interesting stories about hotel to talk about and to share with you. But I warn you beforehand, most of my stories are R-rated, not suitable for PG-13 audience. So please, avid readers, if you are under 18 years of age, please move your mouse to the upper right hand corner and click on the square box with the X in the middle. NOW! I said NOW! Shoo off...

Okay, the kids are out the doors (I hope!)

Have you ever been awaken by the rhythmic sounds of creaky bed, panting and groaning coming from the people on the other side of your hotel walls? Hmm, let me remember, the first time it happened to me, I was also traveling and doing the admission work for a different college. It was at a Hampton Inn right outside of Chicago, perhaps the town is Schaumburg.

So what happened? (gosh, you nosy people!)

My bedtime is normally around 11 pm at night whenever I am on the road, trying to squeeze in enough hours of beauty sleep. When you travel by yourself with an intensive schedule like I had, you tend to develop some kind of habits and mine was to have the TV on at night. Nothing was out of the ordinary until around midnight, when I had finally found the niche for my mind to rest, with beautiful dreams flashing back and forth in the back of my head. Suddenly, I heard and felt some strong force banging rhythmically against the wall just over my head.

What on earth was that?

At first, I thought it was a violent dream I had...and thought it was probably from the TV. But at the same time, the banging was getting more forcefully obvious. With each thrust came along with a woman's voice, squeaking with soft cry as if she was fervently begging for someone's favor or even forgiveness on the other side of the wall. Then I thought the woman was being hit by someone and therefore she was asking for forgiveness. Hey, you never know, men might take their women to hotel and beat the hell out of them and nobody would know or care...and so I assumed of the case.

Then came the heavy panting with simultaneous cursing (from the guy) and then more moaning and groaning. With each moans and pants and curses, the force increased by tenfold. I felt the world around me about to crumble. You see, I was still half asleep and trying to discern if it was real or just some weird dreams I happened to have that night. Finally, when I realized what it was (how pitiful for me!), the couple was about to reach the climax with intensity. I was not sure why, perhaps it's the enhancement effort, but the guy kept cursing as he kept panting and the woman kept moaning. The woman kept shouting "oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah" using a wide range of vocal cord and the man kept cursing "f..., f..., f..." in his most masculine vocal performance to match whatever it was he tried to accomplish. The wall rumbled and almost shattered!

Hmm, they must have thought I was deep asleep. I woke up; amused and a bit aroused. But more confused and amused than anything else. Then I wondered if they were young or old couple. It would be interesting if they were in their mid-60s. I burst out laughing at my own naivety and wild imagination.

That set the record for the "first" of the many stories I have about my neighbors.
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Sep. 16th, 2005

winter wonder

Philadelphia - the Brotherly Love city

I arrived in Philadelphia in the midst of scorching end-of-the-summer heat while it was quite chilly in South Hadley this morning. What a contrast of weather between the two places. altAnyway, the flight took only an hour from Hartford to here but I spent more than an hour waiting in line at Hertz car rental to finally get a brand new Ford Focus for my next two days. The drive from the airport to my hotel was not bad at all even though I got off an exit prematurely and ended up driving around in a deserted ship yard somewhere along the river. Finally, I managed to get out of the maze and found my hotel right in downtown Philly.

Philly is similar to Boston than to New York City, with a stint of south side Chicago's industrial characteristics. I was a little bit surprised seeing many homeless individuals slounching around downtown area, which appears to be a poshy and high-end neighborhood with a lot of tourists and people who work in the financial industry. As I walked along Broad Street to City Hall, a woman (late 30s, white) approached me and asked me to take a photo of a homeless man/woman who was sleeping on the cemented pavement right outside of a stylish Italian restaurant. altI was a little bit taken aback, and inquired of her intention. She then suggested that I should take the photo or call the police to arrest the homeless person. That was pretty odd, why should I do that? Apparently, the woman found the sight to be a little bit disturbing and as a local resident, she disapproved of it, stating that homeless people have stained the clean city atmosphere.

I bid the woman goodbye and minded my own business. With a map taken from the hotel, I strolled pass the City Hall making my way to Chinatown. altOkay, I have to admit that I love visiting Chinatowns almost everywhere I go, whether it's big or small. Luckily for me, Philly's Chinatown is within walking distance from the hotel. After strolling for almost 10 blocks(or more) I began to survey the sounds of sights of the place. alt The sun was setting in the western sky and dusk came with the gradual change in the color of the sky and the hue of neon lights all over the place. I did some serious walking in my heels and I advise that other people should not do what I did because my feet were not cooperating with the venture I had planned; they began to ache. Fortunately, this Chinatown isn't as big as the one in New York City, and after walking up and down, crossing 5 to 10 intersections, I decided to find a place to get some chow chow. alt Friday night is not a good night for single dining, especially when you're in Chinatown. I still have the shyness of eating by myself in crowded and bustling Asian restaurants. It gives me the feeling of being deserted and abandoned.

When it came to the decision-making moment, I opted to visited Phở Cali alt and get myself a hot bowl of Phở. The place was not as crowded as other restaurants in the area, so I found myself a corner and get what I wanted. The Phở wasn't bad at all. When it time to leave, I ordered the Mango-flavor bubble tea. It was so yummy!

It's almost 11 pm, I am sitting in my hotel room, on the 11th floor, looking over a huge rooftop with countless number of cars; one of them is my rental from Hertz.

Good night!

Oh boy, first night at a strange hotel. How am I going to sleep tonight?

Sep. 14th, 2005

college street

A Quickie

Never before had I planned a trip, made a flight, car rental, hotel, and train reservations...everything in less than 10 minutes. It happened this morning; I have efficiently acquired the travel planning skills within a year. :)

So yes, I am excited to travel to Philadelphia because I had never been there before. A friend told me Philly is a ghetto city but I have to see it with my own eyes to judge. It might have certain charming characteristics that might interest me...so I will let you know once I get there on Friday.

That means I will be connecting my New York City trip with a brief stay in Philadelphia. Hmm, wait until the end of October and you will see me bitching about traveling. But for now, I get the adrenaline to be somewhere else. Actually, I look forward to the application reading season, which is not until mid November. Then again, wait until January when you see me complaining about staying in the office until midnight.

October 4th is my one year anniversary on this job.

Hmm, this is sort of off tangent, but Oct. 31st is just about one and a half months away. Oh my, oh my...I am having a lot of gray hair and wrinkles already!

Back to the topic about my job...here is my itinerary for this upcoming trip.


Friday -- fly to Philadelphia, stay 2 nights and do some business, then take the train to New York City.

Sunday -- arrive to New York City, dinner with a good friend

Monday -- visit 4 high schools in Queens and Manhattan, dinner with an alumnae

Tuesday -- visit 4 more high schools in Queens then take the train back to South Hadley.


I am staying at the Millennium Hotel in Time Square. Sweet and Fancy!

Hey, I deserve to be treated well.
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Sep. 13th, 2005

college street

Oh baby, pick me up!

I am not much of a "dessert person" and would rather choose tangy fruits over sweet delicacies to please my palate after meals. However, there is an exception. Of course, nothing is ever be absolute, and so is my preference. With that said, do you know what would savor my sweet tooth?

This would...

Undoubtfully...this piece of cake would...

Oh baby, pick me up!

If you don't have a faint idea of what it is and unable to recognize it, let me introduce you to my favorite "orgasmic tiramisu" that could only be found at Ferrara Bakery and Café in Little Italy, New York City. This is the only place that serves the best tiramisu I have ever experience and no where else could be comparable to the one made by this family.Ferrara

The rich layers of spongy ladyfingers infused with coffee liqueur and bitter espresso coffee oozing in between the layers of rich mascarpone cream will rouse all of your five senses and stir your sweet taste buds. Yum! Just one bite of this heavenly cake, you will find yourself having an insatiable orgasm in the middle of the day, or night, or whenever. My heart pulsated, sending impulses to every single nerve endings in my body. This might be an odd confession in public, but I feel so strangely sexy, or rather, sensual when eating tiramisu. Perhaps it's the name of the cake, pick-me-up, which serves as an allusion to the romantic pursuit of love and the the courtship of dating (entirely my assumption).

Okay, so maybe you think I overrate my experience...but it was truly a sensual experience, especially when I had it with the special one.

Well, if you want to have the same gastronomical experience of Ferrara's tiramisu, find your way to Lower Manhattan by any train that stop in Chinatown. Once you're out of the station on the street level, walk to Mulberry Street and crossing Grand Street in Little Italy. Ferrara Café is on Grand Street, sandwiching between Mulberry and Mott. The place also offer a wide array of other sweet delicacies and numerous of authentic Italian drinks.

I am not a baker, and won't even attempt to try this. But just in case you are a baker and in the sensual mood for baking, here is the tiramisu recipe taken from Ferrara's family website.
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Sep. 10th, 2005

fall2005

mad time

The meeting adjourned at 3:30 pm, an hour earlier than we had expected. It was probably because of the long drive home for most of the participants and therefore the chairman wanted to cut short of an hour to allow extra day light, which made it easier to spot the state troopers and stay away from getting speeding tickets. My colleague and I started to bid other colleagues good bye, wishing them a safe and healthy travel season with the hope of crossing one another somewhere along our travel routes. Many of them have exciting geographical territories, like Florida, Texas, and even the Bahamas. I am a little bit envious because of my dull and boring Midwest states. Anyway, we continued our little chit chat here and there, hugs and kisses were exchanged with most of the participants and then made our way to the parking lot getting ready for a long road home.

rolling meadows We left Cornell campus around 4 p.m, stopped by a gas station to fill up the tank (gas price was $3.39/gallon for regular) and found our way out of Ithaca. My colleague took control of the wheels, I became the navigator in charge of the map; we meandered through the local routes on the first two hours of the trip, passing through small villages and towns where cows and horses were roaming free on the green rolling hills and meadows along the road. The surrounding mountainous terrain added the thrill for us; my colleague is a driver on the fast lane, and tended to accelerate at least 10 miles above the speed limit. rolling meadows It was exhilarating to have the car climbing up to the top of the mountain and then dropped smoothly onto the steep slope just like riding a roller coaster. She took advantages of every single mountain notch and curves that came our way. We both laughed; the high energy permeated the air.

The five-hour drive home was more tolerable thanks to my iPod; it makes the road seems a little bit shorter and the drive less arduous. We were driving under the melodic influences of several top artists and singing out way through. The legendary Luther Vandross was the first one on our music chart; I introduced my colleague to the club remix rendition of I Rather and she was pumped. I am pretty much tune-deaf but it didn't deter me from throwing a few lines in here and there whenever I recalled part of the lyrics and shook my butt to the rhythmic techno beats. We both lose our inhibitions; showing the sides that could be seldom seen in and around the office. The circumstantial moment capture the essence of our individual characteristics and heighten our mutual bonds.

We were completely overwhelmed by the incomparable and powerful voice of Luther Vandross and were also captivated by his deliverance of Dance with my Father. The song softened the atmosphere for a few minutes. Let's just kiss and say goodbye Next, I went through my timeless selections of Luther and proceed to bring Sam Cooke and his 23 greatest hits to the dance floor. With each song he delivered, it was like a segment of his life he wanted to share with us, and all were smooching both of our hearts. After crooning along with Sam Cooke, my colleague requested her favorite song by The Manhattans; I gladly obliged. Searching through the iPod, I found Kiss and Say Goodbye for her. She was insatiable and started to quench her thirst by putting up an instant performance behind the wheels. Her passion came out as she delivered each and every single word of the song to the right tunes.

The sun began to set as we headed east, connecting to I-90 after spending 76 miles on I-88 with Luther and Sam Cooke. My colleague's on-the-spot performance with Kiss and Say Goodbye won the Grammy of the day. Getting on I-90 was sort of home-stretched but we weren't close to home at all; there was still at least 2 hours more we need to get by. To fill up the remaining hours with more of an upbeat tunes to balance the receding daylight behind our backs, I selected Kool & The Gang. We started pumping to Celebration to inaugurate our last leg of the trip and our night drive. Hey, who wouldn't be pumped to celebrate good times, come on! Other songs followed the sequence, namely Get Down on It, Fresh, Too Hot, Ladies Night. As we crossed the New York/Massachusetts border, I softened the drive with Ray Charles and some of his famous hits such as Hit the Road Jack, Georgia (live), Fever. Lastly, passing through the Berkshires in the darken nightfall, I introduced my colleague to the sensual and yet riveted Alejandro Sanz whose songs were entirely in Spanish. With the help of her proficiency in Spanish, my colleague translated some of the lyrics; I felt further in love with Alejandro. I wish I had learned Spanish in high school or college just to be swooned by him.

Well, that's the synopsis of my trip. I had a blast hanging out with my colleague for 3 days and the total 10 hours of driving back and forth. It was a great conference; I walked out with more energy and motivation than what I had before. It will be another month until my colleague and I see each other again because she is off to her first leg of the travel season, going off to Georgia, Florida and other states in the southeastern region. I will be off to New York City and then onto a 2.5 weeks in Minnesota and Ohio.

Such is life for admission professionals. Will you keep up with my travel?
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Sep. 8th, 2005

college street

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Sunrise in Ithaca, New York

Sunrise in Ithaca. I still couldn't avoid the rooftop even when I tried to step on a chair to elevate my height by 8 inches.


The first night sleeping in any hotel has always been hard for me, doesn't matter if it's a 5-star hotel in New York City or the little motel on the roadside somewhere along the lonely interstate highway. I tend to toss and turn, then adjusting the layers of sheets and comforter, sometimes I toss the duvet off the bed, other time I search the closet for another extra blanket. The feeling of sleeping on a bed that has been used by other strangers, the number could be countless, is utterly unsettling. Not only it's a strange bed, but also the unidentified pungent of trapped air and the mixture of left-over body odor of those who used to stay in the room. Although Statler Hotel is a nice place in comparison to other 3 or 4 stars hotels I have stayed in New York, the feeling of uneasiness was still prevalent. Nonetheless, I slept in a little this morning, and now getting ready for the conference.



Update at 9:20 pm

I have had a marvelous day at Cornell University. Somehow I wish I were here as a student.

This is my 2nd meeting with this group of people who work in the same profession as I do and every single time I attended the event, I felt completely overwhelmed by the dedication and undeniable passion that have been clearly demonstrated in their profesSional lives. I praise them for being the pioneers in many possible ways in the work that they do in spite of the obstacles that have come their ways. More notably, I look up to the senior members of the organization who started the mission almost 35 years ago to advocate and provide access to students of color. During the afternoon session, one of the provost from the hosting institutions gave a speech with 10 valuable advices for young professionals in the field. I sat there mesmerizing with her personal stories and was completely washed over with admiration as well as respect for the courage she has given me. I felt empowered like the bunny rabbit with rechargeable batteries to keep "going..and..going."

Anyway, food...big indulgence throughout the day, going from lunch to dinner. I have to commend my colleagues at Cornell for the hospitality and their earnest efforts in hosting the organization for 2 days. Now I am back in my room, sitting here, wondering if I should take some Alka-Seltzer to relieve the heartburn or not. Either that or I should do some exercise and burn those calories. I know, I know...I should have had some limit as I consumed the food. But they were so good :(

Tonight is the second night. I miss home already!

Sep. 7th, 2005

fall2005

daunting task

I am trying to do the last-minute rush to finish up a few left over projects from the summer before taking off for a 5-hour drive to upstate New York. It's going to be a fun drive with another colleague in the car. I might not need my iPod at all for this trip because for the next 5 hours, we will be chit-chatting our ways through the interstate high way and also enjoying the pre-autumn landscape.

This is odd, but I do have the adrenaline for traveling. It's like a worm sneaking through my internal organs. Very pervasive!

Just a little note to capture such mundane moment in life.




Sunset in Ithaca, New York

My hotel room is located on the third floor, looking out to the rooftop of the 2nd floor and beyond the rooftop is part of Cornell Univ. campus as well as the mountain top where the sun sat slightly on top of it. Right as soon as I checked into the room, I cleared all the obstructions to the view to capture this shot. It's not the best shot with my cheap camera but that's all I could do before the sun hid away behind the mountain top. I wish they put me into a higher floor like 7th or 8th to have a better view of the sunset.

The drive from South Hadley to Ithaca was pleasant; we passed through mountains and valleys with green rolling meadows and well-manicured lawns. It was aesthetically spectacular from one end to another. The fall foliage is about to begin and the views from the mountain notches looking down to the valleys were breathtaking in all front. This is the typical countryside landscape that you might have seen from paintings and photos. I just hope that I can come back when the fall foliage is fully in season.

It's 9:30 pm and I am sitting in the Statler Hotel at Cornell University. My colleague and I just returned from a fabulous dinner that filled me up with all the good and healthy dishes. I had baby clams and organic green salad with blue cheese for starters, then I proceeded with sea bass for the main entree and ended with a ginger créme brulee. Absolutely fabulous and it was a wholesome dining experience. I ate so much and am getting ready to crash for the night. Tomorrow is the first day of the two-day conference and I sort of looking forward to seeing colleagues from other schools. Did I ever mention that I am a full member of an exclusive organization only for staff and administrators of color from the Ivy Leagues and Sister Schools? Well, this is it and I think it's the only organization I have ever been involved in that gives me the elite status in the academia. Oh dear, allow me to feel a little snobbish just for a second. I do need such feeling once in awhile when things got stuck and work is overwhelming. But just want to let you know that I am a humble and modest individual all around!

Anyway, Statler Hotel provides free internet connection. What more can I ask for? Other hotels I have stayed often charged an arm and a leg for the internet and put a damage to my bills everytime. The most criminally overprice charges are the hotels in New York City. They think they can charge you anything just because they are in New York City. Such absurd entitlement.

Enough for today. I am going to have a nice and warm shower and then hit the shack.

Jun. 29th, 2005

fall2005

pills and nausea

The trip is finalized and there is about two weeks from now until the departure date. I can not back out from this point forward. Yesterday, I had the travel vaccination shots for Hepatitis A and the doctor prescribed oral pills for Typhoid. The side effects did not wait a day longer to be in effect; I suffered severe headache and a bit of nausea today. For a moment in my busy day, I thought I was pregnant. Hah, who am I kidding, I haven't been shagged for days!!!

Apparently, the anticipation for the trip has not hit me yet; I don't think I will get hyped up until a few days before the departure. Nevertheless, from now until I board the plan, there are still several projects needed my attention. My office is a complete mess. Sitting in my office today, I thought for a second that I might need GPS device to navigate my way from the door to the desk. A friend of mine offered to come up and clean the office for me, but I think he was just kidding.

Nothing else come to mind at the moment so I rather end it here.

Jun. 24th, 2005

fall2005

TGIF

Taking a day off to travel to Boston where I can take care of my travel-related items, such as applying for my visa and purchasing the air ticket. This is it...once these items on my agenda completed, then you know I am flying across the ocean and a few continents to be back to my homeland, where my soul is.

So here I am, leaving for Boston right after I finish with this entry.

Thanks God It's Friday...

Jun. 20th, 2005

fall2005

Random updates

One thing that I dislike about hot summer days is when people go crazy with the AC. Good god, I understand that it's 80's degree outside of the building, but it's not necessary to blast the AC to its max. I am sitting in my office, wearing a turtle neck sweater and a jacket over it. This is so wrong...so wrong!

On that note, my travel plan for VN collided with some head-on obstacles. One of them is my lack of knowledge about Vietnam educational system and its bureaucratic layers of superficial formality. I wish I don't have that heavy pressure from the boss for doing a lot of things she wanted me to do on this trip. But apparently, it's imperative to follow the boss's orders...she is the one who is signing the account for my monthly paycheck. I found it's difficult working on a travel/business plan from a distance, actually it's half way around the world, because I am hind-sighted of different aspects attributable to the in/effectiveness of the trip. I might need to take a different approach. But who could blame me for being so passionate about my job? Perhaps I should be less ambitious, lower my expectations, strategically alter the objectives and outcomes of what I want to come out from the trip. How do you measure the effectiveness and productivity of a business trip that no one has ever paved out before? I feel the pressure to perform at my best but at the same time, there are so many uncertainties; it's like riding a roller coaster...getting so hyped up about the trip to Vietnam and now facing reality which took back some of the hype and energy I had previously anticipated. As I just mentioned, I should lower my expectations and think of it as an initial market research and survey the potentiality for further consideration of full-length development in the future.

Enough about that work junk...I have had enough of that this past week.

Oh, just in case you want to know, I've finally moved to the new apartment last Friday. As usual as other move before, I am currently living out of about 15 carton boxes that hold the junks that I have collected throughout my years living in the East Coast. There were a few boxes of clothes, 2 boxes of shoes, 3 boxes of kitchen items (I collect Asian ceramic bowls and plates), 3 boxes of academic books (from my graduate heydays) and cook books. On top of that, I have a few boxes labeled as "miscellaneous" in which I found them rather "junky" but it is so difficult to emotionally detach from the historical values. How do other people deal with such circumstances? The new apartment is aging rather quickly and seemed like every thing, from the doorknob to the floor and ceiling, everything need a make-over...a serious make-over. I am just afraid one day the ceiling will crumble on me in the middle of the night when I am deep asleep and I will die from suffocation. And yes, call me dumb, call me stupid, but I signed the contract for 14 months with a $900 per month for this grumpy old apartment. But for the consolation price, I like the kitchen in comparable to the one I just had at the old apartment.

In spite of a few frustration, and the artic freeze in my office -- I am delicately beautiful today.

(That's quite of a qualitative and adjective self-adulation, don't you think?)